It’s time to upgrade your dating life, feel your sensual
feminine power, and live happily ever after with your King.
INTRODUCING
CALL IN YOUR KING
Stop Dating Little Boys and Get Into A Relationship With Your King 👑
A 3-month upgrade for the woman who is ready to choose herself first, move on from dating and into a forever relationship claiming the sexiest 'Happily Ever After' with your King.
With Alejandra Welsh Pena,
Europe's leading Intimacy and Relationship Coach
Honey, It’s Time to Get What You Want. That Looks Like…
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Dating becomes fun because you're going on dates with a true match and you’re in awe of how amazing this person is
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You’re attracting men (not boys), who can take the lead, follow up after the date, have vulnerable conversations AND make you laugh
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You are having the best sex of your life going deeper than you ever have with any man, experiencing multiple orgasms followed by forehead kisses and snuggles
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You’re creating the life you’ve always dreamed of—building a home, planning a family, and he's just excited about it as you are.
I promise you all of this exists!
You just haven’t found him yet because…
Even though you’re stunning, have a successful career, and seem to have it all together, there might be subtle ways you’re unknowingly sabotaging your dating life.
Maybe you go on a date and end up turning the conversation into a work meeting, focusing on your achievements because that’s where you’re most confident. You find yourself following up a little too quickly, eager to get things moving. Or perhaps, without realizing it, you’re treating each date like an interview, trying to prove you’re the perfect catch, all while putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.
The truth is, if you’re feeling like you have to compete with other women, or work overtime to "secure" a relationship, that energy creates a barrier. It signals that deep down, you’re operating from a place of scarcity, fear, or doubt.
And this is exactly where the real work comes in. It’s about shifting from effort to ease, finding your inner power, and becoming truly magnetic to the right person—without losing your authentic self.
And that’s where I come in.
If i’m being real
with you it feels
something like this:
➡️ You’re tired of spending your evenings watching Netflix on the background while swiping left on every person
➡️ You’ve friends are setting you up with average Joe's just because you're both single but have zero compatibility
➡️ The couple of men that make it to 6 weeks all have a catch. They don’t want kids, they’re still not over their last relationship, or they’re moving country in 2 months
➡️ It seems that all your friends who are in a relationship found them in college or at work and you think you missed your window and you’re stuck online dating
Dating feels like a chore—heavy and time-consuming. You’re caught in the push-and-pull of wondering if you should keep putting yourself out there because some say it’s a numbers game. But deep down, you know it shouldn’t be this exhausting. Love is meant to flow, not feel forced.
You don't know whether to go in on it, because some people say it's a numbers game, but in your core, you know that it's gotta be easier than this.
Every day, you’re negotiating with yourself: Should I put in more effort today or just let it be? Maybe the right man will find me when the time is right.
But with each swipe, each date that fizzles out, you’re left questioning: Is it really supposed to be this hard?
After all, all your friends seemed to have figured it out.
You’re seeking:
➡️ A relationship with someone who adores you and vice versa.
➡️ To have a family
➡️ Create a home
➡️ To be in deep commitment
➡️ Have the best sex of your life
➡️ To feel the best about yourself, which means being seen, valued and cherished unconditionally.
I had the same feelings about all of this too, and here's the good news...
There is NO shortage of good men out there.
In the UK, there are over 15 million single men, many of whom are actively seeking meaningful relationships. They’re not all “unavailable” or “emotionally stunted”—many are genuinely looking for committed love.
What's even better? Over 60% of men are looking for a stable, long-term relationship. The idea that men are “commitment-phobic” is largely a myth.
Many men are actively working on themselves, engaging in therapy, self-development, and spiritual growth (trust me - I'm working with them!). They value vulnerability, connection, and emotional depth. And they’re looking for YOU!
Great men are out there, but they’re also searching for a woman who aligns with them on values, energy, and vision for the future. The key is being the match they’re looking for.
That's where the real work comes in. When you shift your mindset from scarcity to abundance, you’ll start noticing and attracting high-quality men everywhere—whether at work, social events, or even while going about your daily routine.
And if finding your King is really what you want, I know the exact way to move you from dating to a RELATIONSHIP.
It's time to:
➡️ Stop people-pleasing. You might be used to bending over backward to accommodate someone, fearing they’ll lose interest if you don’t. We’ll shift that behavior into confidently setting healthy boundaries. When you do, the right man will respect you more and be drawn to your self-assured energy.
➡️ Stop over-analyzing. Overthinking every word, text, or date detail can take you out of the moment and into anxiety. I’ll help you cultivate the inner confidence to stay present, trust the process, and connect genuinely without second-guessing your every move.
➡️ Stop chasing these men. Feeling like you have to chase or work extra hard to “win” a man’s attention comes from fear and scarcity. We’ll shift that energy into attracting by being fully yourself, allowing your authentic confidence and worth to draw in men who are equally ready and interested.
➡️ Stop settling for less. If you’ve been settling for less than what you deserve, it’s time to realign. Raising your standards isn’t about being picky; it’s about knowing your value and refusing to entertain anyone who doesn’t align with the love you truly want. You’ll learn to set your standards from a place of self-love and abundance.
➡️ Stop looking for external validation. Relying on external approval or constantly seeking reassurance keeps you stuck in a cycle of insecurity. It's why you choose the f*ckboys, because on some level if you can get them to fall for you then you must be doing something right. Together, we’ll build your sense of inner worth, so you radiate confidence from within, naturally attracting the kind of relationship where YOU get chosen
Raising your standards, getting on a new app, or hiring a matchmaker alone isn’t what changes things— it’s doing the deep inner work, breaking these patterns, and embodying the version of yourself that’s aligned with the love you’re calling in.
That’s where I come in.
THIS IS
WHY I
CREATED
CALL IN
YOUR KING
➡️ Heal your f*boy radar and any toxic patterns
➡️ Open your heart to real love
➡️ Be comfortable with your authentic self
➡️ Have polarity with your King
➡️ Find that sexual confidence so you’re dripping with magnetism
➡️ Set the tone for what sex is going to be like
I INVITE YOU TO JOIN
CALL IN YOUR KING
Stop Dating Little Boys and Get Into A Relationship With Your King 👑
A 3-month upgrade for the woman who is ready to choose herself first, move on from dating and into a forever relationship claiming the sexiest 'Happily Ever After' with your King.
Each month follows my unique 3-Part balanced approach to taking back control of your dating life.
I call it 'Ownership', 'Sexual-Awakening', and 'Slay'. This isn’t about blaming yourself or focusing on what’s gone wrong in the past. It’s about stepping into your power and creating the love life you truly deserve—one that’s in alignment with your deepest desires.
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OWNERSHIP
Whatever is keeping you stuck, we are going to dig it out and let it go. You’ll learn how to make empowered decisions so that you can trust your own judgement of men again.
We’ll look at your attachment style, you sexual scripts, and what shaped your beliefs around love to rewire you into a Secure woman, and heal from previous sucky relationships so that your pattern ends here. No more ambiguous situationships, no more ‘go with the flow’ girl.
When you own your decisions, you take back control of your love life.
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SEXUAL AWAKENING
This is where your journey of sexual empowerment begins. Owning your sexual energy isn’t just about being confident in the bedroom; it’s about tapping into the kind of power that shifts you from being the ‘pick-me girl’ to a woman who knows exactly what she wants and how to attract it, both in life and love.
You stop going into performance mode and faking Os so that you actually get to experience sex that makes you feel super connected and takes you to another dimension rather than sex that makes him look good.
Through guided pleasure practices and anatomy classes you will connect with your feminine power in a way that can only be described as orgasmically empowering
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SLAY
Now that you’ve left the toxic patterns and dead-end dates behind, it’s time to embrace the playful, magnetic side of dating. With confidence and self-assuredness, you can enjoy the process of connecting with potential partners, knowing that it’s just a short step toward finding the King you’ve been waiting for.
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This is a place where you start taking accountability and seeing results just by entering the room.
And at the same time, you also get an expert (me!) who intimately knows you and your relationship history, so you’re always empowered to express your innate magic with ZERO judgment.
Your mindset becomes magnetic as we dive below the usual surface level coachy stuff ….and instead deliver real transformation using Attachment Theory to rewire your toxic (and let’s face it - predictable) patterns about love and men, and reset your nervous system so that you choose you every time!
Not only will we be looking at your relationship patterns, but we’ll also incorporate your sexual power, so you can lead with your empowered feminine.
Most programs teach you about relationships but are too afraid to incorporate one of the strongest components of attracting your King - your sacred sexuality.
In this transformational container you will have one private healing session with me alongside group trainings, side by side with your sisters who have also all dated the casanova who’s forever one foot in and foot out - they get it and they get you.
If you’re tired of feeling like you’re blocking your own love story, Call in Your King will get you out of your own way and set you free.
Start dating seriously by the holidays.
I know how quickly this can happen...
THIS ISN'T YOUR AVERAGE DATING PROGRAM.
I used to date the unavailable guys who I thought I could change, so I know what it’s like to be in despair that happily ever after isn’t going to happen for me.
If I’m real with you it’s no coincidence that I hear the same lines from my clients when they first come to work with me over and over again:
"There’s no good men out there’"
The reality: There are, you’re just not choosing them.
"I don’t get it, we had the best date and now he’s ghosting me"
The reality: Your attachment style and energy is attracting emotionally unavailable partners.
"The apps don’t work. I prefer feeling ‘their energy’ in real life."
The reality: You're not using the apps correctly and your finding sophisticated excuses which are limiting your options".
"I can’t believe he did that to me again!"
The reality: You need to break free from old unhealthy patterns and learn how to communicate your emotions and boundaries.
"Sex is fine but he doesn’t know how to make me come"
The reality: You are responsible for your pleasure. Owning your sexuality is empowering and will lead to mind blowing sex, whoever your partner is.
A part of you knows that it’s not him, it’s you’ - and you’re ready to ditch the fuckboys so you can find the man who’s gonna pick you first every time.
You’re seeking:
➡️ Men who aren’t scared to approach you because your heart and body language is open and your mindset is enthusiastic not sceptical
➡️ Choosing yourself first so that he chooses you everytime
➡️ Becoming the woman who friends go to for love and relationship advice, who friends look up to as relationship goals
➡️ No longer downplay the fact that you're excited about getting married and starting a family in case you ‘scare him off’, cuz he’s initiating those conversations with excitement
➡️ Stop wasting so much energy in finding a partner and put it into actually LIVING your dream and building a life together
“If you want the best relationship with your body and sex of your life to be in front of you, go through Alejandra's course.”
Yoga Instructor, 45, London
Goodbye to late night ‘hey you’ texts and hello to planning your post New Years ski trip in the Alps with your boyfriend.
You’re so much closer than you think you are.
Take it from me….
I'm one of Europe’s leading Intimacy and Relationship Coaches trained at the Institute of Sexual Education & Enlightenment (ISEE) as a Sex Educator, a graduate of SexTech School 2021 and a VITA tantric sex, love and relationship coaching under Layla Martin, where I was trained in somatic, energetic and tantric approaches.
I have coupled my academic learnings with a mind/body/spiritual approach which has proved to be very beneficial in achieving the desired results with all my clients. Additionally I am also kink and trauma informed.
Hi i'm Alejandra Welsh Pena 💕
Long before I had all of these educational tools this is what my life looked like....
I used to have a sign on my forehead calling ALL unavailable guys. I couldn’t resist a f*ckboy. I would unknowingly seek the guys who would blow hot and cold. Treat me like a princess one minute, then leave me on read for days.
Welcome to ALL of my 20s.
I used to have ‘meh’ sex pretty often. It wasn’t terrible, but it wasn’t the consistent mind-blowing sex I’m having now where my entire body shudders, my mind goes into another dimension, and I feel deeply connected to my partner’s heart and body!
I dated the guys who would:
➡️ Pursue you relentlessly then toy with your emotions until you didn’t know up from down
➡️ Didn't know what he wanted but he uses you to figure it out on your time until something better comes along
➡️ Makes it uncomfortable for you to initiate an intimate conversation about what you are or talk about future plans
Eventually I recognised that I was choosing to be the girl that these guys thought would be ideal for a pseudo-relationship, because I WAS unavailable.
Queue heart-wrenching heartbreak with the most unavailable of unavailable men, depths of despair, healing journey and huge awakening - sexually as well as relationally.
I took control of my life, and literally in 4 months everything changed…
I learned to take accountability for my commitment denial, changed my perspective on men and got excited about dating!
The biggest realisation I made - you need to believe in yourself more than you believe in them.
When I finally learned how to talk about this, what I found was that many women felt the same way. And I watched as women started coming into my practice. Not only did I put that behaviour behind me, within 6 months I had met someone on the streets of Brasil, we connected on a physical level, emotional and spiritual level.
We adored each other but there were no grand gestures or love-bombing, and eventually...
The thing I was holding back from my sexy hookup is the reason why we decided to become bf/gf. Because vulnerable conversations didn’t scare him..or me.
And I learned to claim what I wanted BEFORE getting emotionally invested. I embodied the energy to back up my actions and believed with every cell in my body I was worthy of receiving true love.
External results only come from internal work. And once you have the belief and the energy, finding your King becomes a breeze.
“Feels like I'm shedding everything that doesn't serve me or isn't aligned. Your guidance has been invaluable in making space for my King.”
VC Entrepreneur, Lisbon, 30
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
➡️ You know your King is out there, you just need him to become available to you
➡️ You have a dream for your future and all that’s missing is the man who’s going to join that adventure with you
➡️ You want to be encouraged, supported and celebrated by a group of women just like you
➡️ You’re done going on dud dates with men who still feel like children
➡️You’re ready to own your sexuality in a way that will open up your feminine power
➡️ You’re ready for massive internal AND external upgrades
➡️ You value guidance and support from experts and know that big decisions need big deal solultions
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF:
➡️ You still think it’s them and not you.
➡️ You’re looking for a quick fix and a mystery man to appear.
➡️ You’re not ready to get in touch with your sexuality
➡️ You only like surface healing solutions like memes, self-help and YouTube videos.
➡️ You love going on boring dates that make you feel upset.
➡️ You're waiting for some picture-perfect man to step in and sweep you off your feet without wanting to put yourself out there and taking ownership.
“I loved the calls and felt really safe to open up and talk about things in a vulnerable way. I loved the yoni meditation which I listened to everyday which has rewired my sexual narrative”
Events Planner, Lisbon, 36